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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 26.06.2025 12:30

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How do you say "I don't speak Italian yet, but I hope to speak it well one day. It would be a pleasure to learn Italian with you. Would you like to teach me Italian?" in Italian?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Isn't it great that we have an incoming president who is embracing ideas from the past like manifest destiny? Isn't it greater that Trump is willing to get us more territory and land?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

It’s been over a month since I stopped taking sertraline but why do I still feel side effects like brain zaps and anxiety mood changes? The root cause of anxiety it’s your thinking and I perfectly master that better than before so it’s hard lately.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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That's it for today.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Does not procrastinate.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Making more friends is a goal.

Ask yourself:

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):